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Chakra Healing for Healthy Relationships (With Crystal Pairings)

We are all social beings, and need healthy, supportive relationships to feel safe and grow, to one extent or another. According to Harvard Health, having someone show us they care, and doing the same for others, triggers the release of hormones that are responsible for reducing stress.

Because of that, nourishing and maintaining healthy relationships is important for our well-being. High-vibrational crystals for relationships can help us open up to the energies we need for a happier, healthier life.

Blue Crystals:

Communication is a key in any relationship. Blue is associated with the Throat Chakra which is immensely helpful

for clear communication, inspire truthfulness and balance the verbal give and take. They can help us and others express needs authentically and healthily. With this chakra closed is when people say things they don't mean or communicate in aggressive, hurtful ways.

Blue stones also have a lot of other amazing benefits for relationships. Activating your Third Eye and even Higher Chakras. Which helps you with discernment and seeing truth. Stepping outside of ego, your ego can really hurt your relationships, and connecting to your higher self which knows what is in your highest good.

  • Blue Apatite

  • Chrysocolla

  • Aquamarine

  • Sodalite

  • Lapis Lazuli

  • Labradorite

  • Blue Lace Agate

  • Blue Tiger's Eye

  • Blue Chalcedony

  • Iolite

Green Crystals that Open Heart Chakra: Heart Chakra Crystals are here to help us learn to believe in love and level up our love life. For the heartbroken, these gemstones can promote healing from past heartbreak and pain, so we can open our hearts to the energy of love once again. In a sense, these crystals for relationships prepare us for healthy relationships, by encouraging the release of toxic patterns, toxic lovers, or thought processes that simply don’t serve us. These stones work in our highest good, helping us be receptive to receiving and open to giving love. They help us connect on a deeper level, strengthening existing romantic connections.

  • Emerald

  • Prehnite

  • Amazonite (Can be for both Throat and Heart Chakras)

  • Jade

  • Aventurine

  • Malachite

  • Peridot

  • Green Calcite

  • Moss Agate

  • Serpentine

  • Seraphinite

  • Unakite

Pink Crystals also for the Heart Chakra or Higher Heart:

Pink crystals are the go to for connecting to your Unconditional Love. Finding your self love and a love for everyone else. Love is the highest frequency and the way to connect to Source God and Oneness Energy. When you feel this energy you can not hurt someone else, having the understanding that you would only be hurting yourself. Which means you take others highest good into consideration as well as your own. Which is the only way for true intimacy and truly connecting with another.

  • Pink Tourmaline

  • Kunzite

  • Rhodochrosite

  • Rhodonite

  • Rose Quartz

  • Ruby

  • Morganite

  • Mangano Calcite

  • Danburite

  • Pink Opal

Crystals for the 3 Lower Chakras:

I see a lot of people neglecting the lower chakras when it comes to relationships and emotions of love. Let me explain why these are the most important to work on, if you are trying to heal yourself for better relationships. All 3 of these lower chakras deal with depression and anxiety. As well as your fears, which is the most important. Most people think that hate in the opposite of love, but fear is actually the true opposite of love. If you can heal these chakras and start transmuting your fear back in the direction of love, which is your true energy state of being, you will see your relationships shift so hard and truly feel happiness around others.

First off, the Sacral Chakra is connected to your emotional body. It is where your emotional traumas reside. It is also connected to your sexual organs, which means it holds any sexual traumas. If your physical body and emotional body are holding onto these intense kinds of energies then it will be extremely hard for you to open up and connect with your partner. You do not want to carry those energies into your new relationship. The subconscious will start treating and reacting to your new partner in a fight or flight way, instead of a loving way. Which means you will not get the closeness and connection you've been needing in order to heal or feel loved.

Lastly the Sacral chakra governs your passion. Most people relate this to hobbies, or career and purpose in life. Which is definitely still true, especially because this chakra is where your creative energy is held. But Passion applies to relationships as well. For one, you need to have passion for your relationship in general. Relationships take work and you need that passionate drive to put in this kind of work. Lastly, Passion is also needed for physical intimacy. Without passion in a relationship there is less touching and physical touch is a very important way of showing affection. There are tons of scientific studies done that show physical touch and sex reduces stress and a bunch of other health benefits. So get that passion back in your bedroom for your health and relationships sack.

The Base Chakra (Root Chakra) governs your feelings of belonging, safety, and worthiness. If this chakra isn't lighting up or is clogged then you can't feel safe in your relationship. When this chakra is closed is when you feel jealous and insecure.

The Solar Plexus Chakra can work hand and hand with the Base Chakra, both help with similar energies needed for self confidence. When you feel secure and have confidence, you will have a comforting power behind your self loving decisions which are crucial for a healthy loving relationship. Both the Root and Solar Plexus chakras also help with addiction issues, so that you're not addicted to bad behavior, substances or relationships. The Solar Plexus is where you hold your sense of self, so you know who you are and who is the other person. Which means you won't enter into codependent relationships. You need to have a healthy sense of self first and for most.

These are the best crystals associated with the lower chakras and relationships:

  • Carnelian

  • Garnet

  • Moonstone

  • Citrine

  • Amber

  • Orange Calcite

  • Sunstone

  • Tiger's Eye

  • Red Jasper

  • Hematite

  • Smokey Quartz

Feel free to try all the other crystals associated with these lower chakras :D. These are just the ones I've seen help the most with relationship connections. There are a tone of others if you want to focus on healing these chakras over all.


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